Paula white divorce reason

1. Getting in for the wrong reasons. Marrying for money. We've all heard that that's a ticket to a quick divorce, but what about when you marry because it's what you think you should do?

I've met many divorced ladies who say the problems that made them leave were there right from the beginning but "everyone expected us to live happily ever after" or "we had already spent so much money on the wedding" or "we had just built our dream home." So, remember, until you say "I do," you always have the choice to say "I don't!"



2. Lack of individual identity. A codependent relationship is not healthy. When you don't have your own interests or the opportunity to express yourself outside of coupledom, you become "couple dumb."

If you are not comfortable doing things without your partner, or you don't know what kind of music, movies, or food you used to like, you are likely in deep and you probably feel like you are drowning and don't know why.