*Problem:
The most important obstacle in a relationship would be the blame-game! Some people fall into the habit of expecting their spouse to make them happy. And if what they expect does not happen, they start feeling that their spouses have started ignoring them and thus their marriage is falling apart. It always starts with, "He did not do this" or " He did not do that for me". This can easily turn into "None of this is my fault; it is all my spouse`s fault." The blame game continues and so do the problems since you end up making your spouse your enemy.
*Solution:
Figure out ways that both you and your spouse can help the situation. Blaming each other will get you nowhere. Rather than blaming each other for why things aren`t working, try to figure out ways to make things better. If you find yourself angry and blaming your spouse for something, stop, sit down, and think about what you can do to better understand how your spouse is feeling.
